﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><!--RSS Genrated: Sun, 19 Apr 2026 09:30:13 GMT--><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:ev="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/event/"><channel><title>Rethinking Your Future - Elder Care</title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com:443/Home/rss/category/4135/elder-care</link><atom:link href="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com:443/Home/rss/category/4135/elder-care" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><description>RSS document</description><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[The quiet weight of caregiving]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/the-quiet-weight-of-caregiving</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1969/mom-on-phone21.jpg" length="21805"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ My mom is 92 and, remarkably, still pretty independent. 

 She lives in her own home. She reads. She cooks. She putters. She watches her shows. She still insists she’s “fine.” And in many ways, ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 19:39:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/the-quiet-weight-of-caregiving</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1969]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Social safety nets aren't always as strong as they sometimes appear]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/social-safety-nets-arent-always-as-strong-as-they-sometimes-appear</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1964/woman-with-walker.jpg" length="23900"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ Many people assume that cities fund most older adult services. In reality, they do not. 

 Programs like Meals on Wheels, caregiver support, transportation assistance, home safety modifications, ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2025 18:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/social-safety-nets-arent-always-as-strong-as-they-sometimes-appear</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1964]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Everyone ages, but senior focused organizations receive little in charity]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/everyone-ages-but-senior-focused-organizations-receive-little-in-charity</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1962/older-man4.jpg" length="16826"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ Every so often, I read something that makes me stop and catch my breath. 

 Recently, it was an article in  The Chronicle of Philanthropy  listing America’s 100 favorite charities. On the surface, ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2025 17:42:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/everyone-ages-but-senior-focused-organizations-receive-little-in-charity</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1962]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Being seen helps caregivers seek support]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/being-seen-helps-caregivers-seek-support</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1957/caregiver-support-group.jpg" length="20658"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ Over lunch the other day, a dear friend was talking about the fact that she has been caring for her mother since her dementia diagnosis 14 years ago. She shared key points in her journey, like when ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2025 17:21:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/being-seen-helps-caregivers-seek-support</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1957]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[The quiet intimacy of caregiving]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/the-quiet-intimacy-of-caregiving</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1956/elderly-bathing.jpg" length="17436"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ I have just returned from time in New Hampshire caring for my mom. 

 In overwhelming pain, my mother became violently ill. My sister called 911, and Mom was transported to the hospital.  

 The ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2025 21:31:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/the-quiet-intimacy-of-caregiving</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1956]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Empowering caregivers: A vital necessity for our future]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/empowering-caregivers-a-vital-necessity-for-our-future</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1946/emma-heming.jpg" length="22381"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ That role may include physical assistance, emotional support, advocacy and care coordination, health monitoring, and long-term care planning. 

 For many of us who have assumed the role of family ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2025 16:33:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/empowering-caregivers-a-vital-necessity-for-our-future</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1946]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Mini horses, big hearts]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/mini-horses-big-hearts</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1929/Horse.jpg" length="24748"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ For the last couple of weeks, Senior Concerns’ Adult Day participants have had been treated to two special guests. Their names are Romeo and Ziggy, and both are wonderful visitors – kind, friendly, ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 02 Aug 2024 18:23:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/mini-horses-big-hearts</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1929]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Lessons learned for keeping loved ones safe]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/lessons-learned-for-keeping-loved-ones-safe</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1923/emergency-alert-button.jpg" length="9012"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ My friend Ronnie and her sister just signed their mom up for a personal emergency alert system. It’s the kind that hangs around your neck and will signal the company if you press the button. 

 An ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2024 16:53:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/lessons-learned-for-keeping-loved-ones-safe</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1923]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Local support for caregivers awaits]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/local-support-for-caregivers-awaits</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/1922/male-caregiver.jpg" length="16384"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ My husband and I have established roles in our daily lives. I am the shopper, the cook, and the social secretary. My husband is the accountant, the contract reader, and the sprinkler repair man. Our ...]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2024 16:34:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/local-support-for-caregivers-awaits</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-1922]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Watch expiration dates during COVID]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/watch-expiration-dates-during-covid</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/852/Covid-tests-scaled1.jpg" length="23175"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[ A few months back a friend told me she was not feeling well and was trying to find an at-home rapid COVID test. She needed the test because in a few days it would be her turn to care for her mother, ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2022 15:20:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/watch-expiration-dates-during-covid</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-852]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Assessments offer clarity in uncertain times]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/assessments-offer-clarity-in-uncertain-times</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/805/img-geriatric-assessment.jpg" length="14099"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/805/200200p4135EDNthumbimg-geriatric-assessment.jpg" alt="" /> Barbara’s parents, like many seniors in their 80s, are trying to keep from contracting COVID-19 by isolating at home. 

 To keep fed, they signed up for the governor’s Great Plates program, which ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2020 18:55:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/assessments-offer-clarity-in-uncertain-times</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-805]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Giving a coffee maker a dual purpose]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/giving-a-coffee-maker-a-dual-purpose</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/735/img-mr._coffee_12_cup_coffee_maker_bvmc-sjx33gt.jpg" length="18284"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/735/200200p4135EDNthumbimg-mr._coffee_12_cup_coffee_maker_bvmc-sjx33gt.jpg" alt="" /> My friend, let’s call him Alfred, who is in his 70s, has been trying to devise a system to alert his close contacts if something were to happen to him while he’s at home. 

 He’s sensitive to the ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2019 17:21:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/giving-a-coffee-maker-a-dual-purpose</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-735]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Long-distance caregivers have a role to play]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/long-distance-caregivers-have-a-role-to-play</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/672/img-Long-distance-caregiving.jpg" length="154702"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/672/200200p4135EDNthumbimg-Long-distance-caregiving.jpg" alt="" /> If you live an hour or more away from a loved one who needs your care, you’re a long-distance caregiver. 

 Based upon the needs of the care receiver, as well as the skills, abilities and ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2019 16:25:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/long-distance-caregivers-have-a-role-to-play</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-672]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Honoring our caregivers can take many forms]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/honoring-our-caregivers-can-take-many-forms</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/655/img-Barbara-Birnstein-%c2%a92019-Kitti-McMeel-9.jpg" length="13697"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/655/200200p4135EDNthumbimg-Barbara-Birnstein-©2019-Kitti-McMeel-9.jpg" alt="" /> Recently my mother returned home to New Hampshire after two wonderful weeks visiting me and my husband here in California. I had lots of goals for the visit, and we accomplished many of them. 

 ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2019 17:14:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/honoring-our-caregivers-can-take-many-forms</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-655]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Think about shaving as a shared activity]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/think-about-shaving-as-a-shared-activity</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/621/img-shaving.png" length="148934"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/621/200200p4135EDNthumbimg-shaving.png" alt="" /> Shaving one’s face is a fundamental part of being a man. A generation ago, the act of shaving denoted manhood, pride of appearance, cleanliness, neatness and a person in control and well-groomed. ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2018 19:55:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/think-about-shaving-as-a-shared-activity</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-621]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Influx of seniors challenge emergency room system]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/influx-of-seniors-challenge-emergency-room-system</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/222/seniorsin-hosptial.jpg" length="24349"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/222/200200p4135EDNthumbseniorsin-hosptial.jpg" alt="" />  The number of older people in emergency rooms is expected to increase significantly over the next 30 years, doubling in the case of those older than 65 and potentially tripling among those over 85. ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 24 Aug 2017 19:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/influx-of-seniors-challenge-emergency-room-system</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-222]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Supporting a grieving parent]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/supporting-a-grieving-parent</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/223/grief.jpg" length="16409"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/223/200200p4135EDNthumbgrief.jpg" alt="" /> Last week I asked my mother if there was something she thought I should write about in my column. Quick to reply, she said, “How does one cope when their spouse is dying?”  “What do you mean by ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 10 Aug 2017 19:35:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/supporting-a-grieving-parent</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-223]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Mandated reporters have an important role to play]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/mandated-reporters-have-an-important-role-to-play</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/231/aps.png" length="189482"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/231/200200p4135EDNthumbaps.png" alt="" /> Not long ago I received a call from some friends who were concerned about their elderly neighbor. The neighbor (I will call him Bob) was discovered by a friend. Bob had fallen in his home and was ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2017 22:14:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/mandated-reporters-have-an-important-role-to-play</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-231]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[When you suspect a friend’s parent needs help]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/when-you-suspect-a-friends-parent-needs-help</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/233/Martys-father.jpg" length="14702"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/233/200200p4135EDNthumbMartys-father.jpg" alt="" /> A few weeks ago my husband and I were invited to a small dinner party. My friend wanted us to visit with his 90-year-old father, who was in town for a brief stay.  It had been a long time since I’d ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2017 21:44:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/when-you-suspect-a-friends-parent-needs-help</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-233]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Senior Concerns’ services have grown with population]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/senior-concerns-services-have-grown-with-population</link><enclosure type="image/jpg" url="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/247/caregiver-helping-dad.jpg" length="28373"></enclosure><description><![CDATA[<img src="https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/Portals/9/EasyDNNNews/247/200200p4135EDNthumbcaregiver-helping-dad.jpg" alt="" /> Certain charitable organizations are even more vital today than they were 20 years ago. 
 For example, brain disorder nonprofits like the  Alzheimer’s Association  or Autism Speaks  are serving a ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2016 18:13:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/senior-concerns-services-have-grown-with-population</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-247]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[A time to honor those who care]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/a-time-to-honor-those-who-care</link><description><![CDATA[  Our community is full of them. 

 They often go unnoticed by friends and neighbors. Their role is not known to their employer. For many, their doctor is unaware of their situation. 

 They walk ...]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2016 20:37:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/a-time-to-honor-those-who-care</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-263]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Join the conversation on LGBT and aging]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/join-the-conversation-on-lgbt-and-aging</link><description><![CDATA[  In many communities, LGBT ( lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) older adults are a forgotten population. 

 Before the 1970s, little was known about this part of the population except that ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2015 21:00:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/join-the-conversation-on-lgbt-and-aging</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-267]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Person-centered care]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/person-centered-care</link><description><![CDATA[    Last week I met my new neighbor’s 4-year-old daughter. I was with my dog, Rolo, and the little girl explained to me that her brother, just 22 months, was “obsessed” with dogs. 

 It was a big ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2014 05:17:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/person-centered-care</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-290]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Training senior care providers]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/training-senior-care-providers-1</link><description><![CDATA[    When I was in corporate America, the companies I worked for invested a lot of money in employee education and development. 

 Part of the reason this is on my mind right now is because I saved ...]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2014 09:20:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/training-senior-care-providers-1</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-292]]></dc:identifier></item><item><dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Gallagher]]></dc:creator><title><![CDATA[Making a business ‘ability-friendly’]]></title><link>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/making-a-business-lsquoability-friendlyrsquo</link><description><![CDATA[    Recently my parents needed to open a checking account for their newly created trust. In a phone conversation with my mom, who now makes most of the financial decisions, I asked which bank she ...]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 01 Aug 2013 14:08:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>https://rethinkingyourfuture.com/making-a-business-lsquoability-friendlyrsquo</guid><dc:identifier><![CDATA[c0cd3f4b-6978-4727-9062-4e50ece0c2a4-399]]></dc:identifier></item></channel></rss>